For the girls again.....?

Firstly, thx to 'Mayflower' for her answer but i gotta ask again. If i hooked up with my ex gf a few times and then she said she didnt feel comfy doing the casual stuff anymore and before that, she had not been with any1 but me then wat r the chances that she's seein sum1 else in less than 2 weeks after we messed around? She even told a close friend who confided in me that she's been honest all the way til now bout everythin and she spends a lot of time at home on the computer or at the gym. When she went out with sum new guys she met, she spent maybe 30 mins with them and went home alone, i know this cos we met up l8r. She's a good girl in the end for sure. So am i being paranoid and jealous? If she told this close friend of hers that right now, we need to get our 'friendship' back (we had a fight last sat. nite) and maybe sumthin might happen between us again down the line then is this girl for real or foolin around behind my back? Do I meet her 2day 2 talk or is it wastin time? Thx.

For the girls again.....?
uhm... if shes pretty honest... good girls can go bad... ouch
Reply:nvr a waste of time. if she says shes fooling behind your back then you know it. if she is for real then you know it...so nvr time wasting
Reply:Meet her to talk.
Reply:It sounds more like your casual activity is making her develop more feelings for you than she is comfortable with. I don't think she is seeing anyone else.
Reply:i think you should talk to her and ask her straight up but before that you should actually figure out what u also feel...so when she ask you u would know what to say...if u dont have feeling for her u should be jelouse..but if u do have feeling for her be seroius and stop messing around ...
Reply:Let her have some freedom, if she's not your girlfriend then really it's none of your business. If she is seeing someone then maybe she hasn't told you because she knew how you would react.